Treat a word that can be used in many references. Here from my own perspective I am watching this as a word which means the way of behaving by one person to another. There are many instances and my own experiences make me to extract this meaning and write about it.

Every relationship demands a certain behaviour from an individual. None of the relationship in the world is exceptional.We observe it everywhere. It is expected from elders to be kind and loving and from younger ones respect and care. Love care and help from a friend. Love, devotion, resposibilty and care from life partner. Likewise in any relationship.

But what is expected do not happen every time and every place. I have witnessed the people who actually deserve something but don’t get. People sometimes become greedy, arrogant, proudy, selfish and rude. They don’t treat other persons the way they should treat them. But I have also noticed that these same people become very upset when someone else treat them in the same way they treat others .

I only want to say everything lies in the words deserve and desire. The way we feel to be treated by anyone or we think we deserved to be treated in a certain manner is not possible until unless we treat people in the way we want to get treated. So when we desire to be treated well from someone we must deserve it and it will only happen when we treat others in a right way.

So treat everyone with courtesy. Give them their due respect, love and care then only people treat us the way we want.

In response to one word prompt # Treat


Recognition matters

Oohh wow she got recognised for her social work…… He is recognised for his performance at work place and going to be rewarded for that.

We use to hear these kind of things many times around us.Everyone is working some way or the other but why only few recognised ? If you are sincere and honest with your work than what is the need of recognition through awards or rewards? Does recognition matters?If yes what we have to do for it?Are People doing ordinary work can be motivated and feel recognised?

Only few recognised. Yes it happens because without doing something exceptional it’s hard to be recognized so they must be doing something special but his is also true that there are many people who are really doing good in different field but don’t get recognized for a long time. There are many whose work got recognised even after their deaths.

Does recognition matters? Definitely it matters. When anybody’s work get recognized it motivates them to do more . It always motivates positively. Recognition gives someone an identity which they really want. Recognition through rewarding act as a catalyst. When people rewarded for their work they really try to sustain it. Ultimately it create positive vibes and make people work harder.

But there are many around us whose contribution and work never get recognised.I will exemplify it with a very common scenario in our society. Working women most of the time get recognition in society.Their family members, relatives as well as acquaintances recognize their hard work. They say that she is working hard, managing home as well as job. This kind of recognition also matters but on the other hand there are some females who dedicates all their efforts and time in taking care of their family, kids and elderly people at home but hardly people recognize their work and appreciate them.Is their work has no importance? Similar is the case with many males too. They try to do best in their capacities and circumstances but their efforts also never get recognition. These people also need motivation.

What we can do in it?We can do a lot in this. Whom so ever we see working hard and well in their capacities should be appreciated time to time. We must praise their work and effort in front of family members and friends.We must let them know that their contribution is important and matters a lot.This kind if appreciation boost their moral and they get themselves recognised with their work and efforts and feel their own identity. If we can do than we must do it because we also need recognition and Recognition really matters.

When woman succeed

Gender equality – at this particular point of time in this world most of us are of the view that there should be no discrimination among male and female.Everyone is talking about gender equality but the reality is that many of them has not accepted this fact from inside. I am saying this because I have heard ,I have read at many places and many incidences about it.when a woman make her presence felt in the society, achieve something or attain good position in an organisation or entity or maybe in a political party , many people including female ask questions or whisper slowly that how can she achieve something , how has she achieved so much in a short span of time, how is this possible? Even they give arguments like she must have compromised at some point of time or the other.They talk about different kind of compromises about it.They really do not accept that a woman has achieved everything just coz of her hard work and dedication. My question and answer to all those who raise this kind of issues about a woman’s success .
Is she equally capable to do all the tasks like man?

I am not the only one to give answer of this question despite many of the women who have achieved a lot and who are working in different fields have already proved that they can do each and everything what ever a man can do.

She easily gets promotion because she is a female?

There is nothing like that.They also need to work hard,give result and achieve targets like others but the fact is that people do not accept it easily and try to give an argument of her being a female and getting easily promoted.

Without any compromise can she achieve such a renowned position?

Yes,definitely a woman can achieve anything without making compromises.It is not necessary that a woman make compromises and get things easily in their profession. Woman who have achieved higher positions are those who already proved their intelligence, hard work and dedication towards their profession.They are very much passionate about their work and deliver their best because none of the organisation want to give higher position to someone who has not proved herself among others.

Indeed many times when a female step out of her home and try to make her place in her profession she has to deal with many situations where many of the people try to harrass or take her advantage. It’s really challenging to deal with such kind of people and incidences and then keep herself safe as well as secure.Its not always easy for a woman.So her success really deserve equal respect that of a man.

Either woman manages their personal, professional and social life in a better way.

Despite of the negative mentality of the people about the success of a woman reality is that really women makes several sacrifices and do hard work in our society.Women are taking dual responsibilities on their shoulders. They are taking care of their family life, kids and home equally as they do with their professional life.They give most of the time to their profession and family rather than they give to themselves this is the one sacrifice they really make.We must respect a woman and her success and do not try to find out the reasons behind her success not all the successful women are successful in their life just because they are women they really have proved themselves and made their place in this society and world.

The need is to change our own mentality and mindset towards woman and change our perception.People must not try to be judgemental about her. The change won’t come by talking about gender equality instead change will come when we see both males and females from same point of view and perspective.

Gratitude -A Magic

Gratitude is a word that really bring joy with it. This word really creates magic.When anyone doing good to us and whenever we feel that we are getting benefited from some person or anything we must express our gratitude towards them because whenever we express our gratitude we feel lighter and happier and it also bring smile to other person’s face. This is not necessary that every time when someone did anything for you he or she expect you to thank them in return but when you say thanks in return it first give ourselves a sense of relief and happiness. It also help in boosting the bond between people because whenever we say thanks or express our gratitude for someone in return to their good deed they feel a sense of recognition to their good work and ultimately it helps in creating healthy relations.

Whenever I feel depressed due to any circumstances I first start counting all the things that I have in my life and once I start doing it the depression automatically goes away and ultimately I become thankful to all the blessings that I have in my life.

Trust me gratitude creates magic in our lives.Feel the magic…..

With response to one word prompt : Gratitude