These days I have observed thoughts of some people as well as mine. I have recollected some of the memories from my family too. After this I realised that one must set priorities in life and people really have some set priorities as per their necessities as well as perceptions.
The most important things that many of us avoid is to give priority to ourself. We have made a nexus of our needs, desires, aspirations and being answerable to the others around us which make most of us giving lesser or no priority to ourself.
Giving priority to ourself is necessary and it’s not being selfish. I have summed up it as:
- If we first think about ourselves and our own well being then only we would be able to get desired results out of our actions.
- While doing certain things where some more people are involved it is not required to wait for others to complete their task,if you think you can do it in a better way and in lesser time go ahead. Do not hesitate in showing your potential.Its not being selfish, it’s about your skills.
- If you have the sole responsibility of your family then it’s really become an important thing to first give priority to yourself. Take good care of your health, take proper rest and take out time for yourself because if only you stay healthy then only you would be able to handle other responsibilities.
- There are lot of things that go along with life but we should not forgive to live our own life, moments of joy and cheerfulness are the things that make us live our life.
- If you really feel something good and praise worthy about yourself then don’t let it go. Sometimes self branding, self appraisal and self appreciation boost our confidence and improves our persona.
- If you think you are worthy of taking credit towards an accomplishment then must move forward and take the credit because in many cases people do not give you credit. So stop expecting from others and take it. This should also be one of your priority to give yourself due credibility.
There could be much more that can come under self priority. We must have set priorities in life but do not forget to keep yourself amongst the top one of them because you are the one who has to be the leading person in order to accomplish something from those priorities. So do not compromise and be your priority first 😊.