What lies inside our heart is…

strengthens our mind and soul,

Amidst the toughest time…

where nothing seems to be yours or mine,

Is this the end of everything …

no it’s not,

We can and we will achieve …

There is a new beginning

I really believe 😊


Really against her will

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In the childhood she gets lesson of sacrificing own choices for being a girl,

Rules and regulations of the society in the name of culture and traditions are being imposed on her from centuries,

Getting judged for her each and every action including her looks and character,

She adjusts herself to several such things in the name of family, society, traditions and gender etc. and all these –

against her will….

But she makes her presence felt everywhere and we all know this world is beautiful and alive because of her.

Obsessed with the Past…

Everyone of us have good and bad times in our lives. Moments happy as well as sad both pass away with time and life moves on and on.

We all have memories.Memories that are to live with and some we never want to remember. Some of the time and some moments are really special that we want to live again and again.

Nothing wrong in remembering some moments and memories from the past. But there are some people who get stucked with their past. Most of the time of their day gets spend in remembering and talking about their past. Such people can’t overcome their past and adjust with the current time of their life.

Some miss their past love life, their partners, some remember their old work place and colleagues, some remember the city from which they get relocated to the newer ones. There are ample examples in which such people get themselves stay along with their past.

Such a situation when an individual remains obsessed beyond a limit with his/her past life then this situation is really dangerous.They can’t get involve in their present life and stuff. They are really not able to concentrate on the things they should.

They keep roaming in their Memory Lane.These people need help of their family members, friends and colleagues.

Such people can be recognized easily. When someone continuously talk about their past life and reveals that he/she is not happy with present life are those people.They spend most of the time in talking about their past life.

How such people can be helped? We can help these people by telling them and make them realise about the positive things going in their life. We must help them to know that concentrating on their present life will help them in future.

People obsessed with their past can be helped by creating a positive ambience around and time to time should be realised that past will never be back. Life moves in present.

With the help of near dear ones, friends and colleagues one can overcome such situation but if its difficult then one can also take the help of a counselor. It’s necessary to live and being in love with present because our present will make our future.

Memories are forever and some are to cherish. Be happy with your good ones and forget the rest if they are painful. Learn from past, live in present and make your future bright. 😊


These days I have observed thoughts of some people as well as mine. I have recollected some of the memories from my family too. After this I realised that one must set priorities in life and people really have some set priorities as per their necessities as well as perceptions.

The most important things that many of us avoid is to give priority to ourself. We have made a nexus of our needs, desires, aspirations and being answerable to the others around us which make most of us giving lesser or no priority to ourself.

Giving priority to ourself is necessary and it’s not being selfish. I have summed up it as:

  1. If we first think about ourselves and our own well being then only we would be able to get desired results out of our actions.
  2. While doing certain things where some more people are involved it is not required to wait for others to complete their task,if you think you can do it in a better way and in lesser time go ahead. Do not hesitate in showing your potential.Its not being selfish, it’s about your skills.
  3. If you have the sole responsibility of your family then it’s really become an important thing to first give priority to yourself. Take good care of your health, take proper rest and take out time for yourself because if only you stay healthy then only you would be able to handle other responsibilities.
  4. There are lot of things that go along with life but we should not forgive to live our own life, moments of joy and cheerfulness are the things that make us live our life.
  5. If you really feel something good and praise worthy about yourself then don’t let it go. Sometimes self branding, self appraisal and self appreciation boost our confidence and improves our persona.
  6. If you think you are worthy of taking credit towards an accomplishment then must move forward and take the credit because in many cases people do not give you credit. So stop expecting from others and take it. This should also be one of your priority to give yourself due credibility.

There could be much more that can come under self priority. We must have set priorities in life but do not forget to keep yourself amongst the top one of them because you are the one who has to be the leading person in order to accomplish something from those priorities. So do not compromise and be your priority first 😊.

Heart beat moment

The moment when I realized

I have feelings for you

My heart beats got faster and faster …

The moment when I looked into your eyes

I find your eyes full of deep love for me

My heart beats got faster and faster…

The moment you hold my hands

and I felt warmth of your touch

My heart beats got faster and faster…

The moment when I sensed fragrance of your breathe

And heat of passion for love towards me

My heart beats got faster and faster…

The moment when you pulled me towards you and I put my head on your shoulder

My heart beats got faster and faster..

The moment when you read my eyes and gave me a hug

When I needed it most

My heart beats got faster and faster…
Every moment when I feel your love, care, passion and compassion

My heart beats gets faster and faster…


For ourself

Ourself, here is used for an individual and his/her own. Every individual has own priorities, liabilities, worries and happiness. And all these things depend on an individual only and his/ her choice.

In our lives we encounter problems that may be emotional, financial or health related or may be anything that we consider a problem. As we are all social so we take advice from our friends, relatives and from professionals.

But here I think that we can take advice and get motivated but there are or almost in every situation we have to take decision for ourself. There is no problem with taking advice but we should not be influenced by others’ on every matter. We should gather enough courage in some situations where we can raise our voice for ourself. We should express our thoughts, liking and dislikings.

There are many situations where we are advised to take our step back where we really wanna move ahead and we know it well that what’s wrong and right. For our own rights, for our own self respect we must speak and take a stand for ourselves.

Just for the sake of making people happy around us do not accept or follow anything which you actually don’t want. There are certain cases where people follow advices given by others and suffer. In whichever circumstances we are ,we can only take a right decision for ourselves.

Trust me for time being it feels like to follow others’ advice and move but when we face the actual circumstances we only regret our decisions. It happens in personal life as well as professional.So be wise and choose what’s really good for you but if you know that you can make better decision on your own for yourself leave the good one and go for better. This is our life and we have to live every moment. It’s our journey so we should be enough confident about taking decisions for our betterment.

It’s better to be happy with our own decisions rather regretting on others’ advice. 😊